I M Perfect lady

The insanity of a civilized society and its rules, is it ties the hands that are suppose to protect the children…while keeping abusers free.  Tell me how this is sane?

How is it okay when a mother is unable to keep her children out of the hands of her abusive husband?  How is it that he gets to be 'innocent' until proven guilty, when evidence has been gathered…stories have been told.  Do most know that it is very very seldom, a very small percentage of the time is a lie told about abuse…and yet we are acting like every child is a liar.

Children do not even know about sexual behavior and yet we are acting like they have an adult mind….they don't. They are being abused with adult behavior that they can't make up, for it is beyond their experiences.  And, they don't want to talk about it…for it is not comfortable to endure let alone speak of it….and yet they do. And, then we doubt them.  Come on people!

How is that we have lost the common sense, that we have given up the rights of the innocent to protect the rights of the abusers?

How is that we would rather fail and let a child endure more abuse, than face the slim chance of false accusations?  

How is it that a prosecutor can look at different people reporting the same sick treatment from one person and act like there is not enough to make a case.

Our prosecutors have lost their common sense.  They are willing and very able to look away from countless cases of sexual abuse.  They are looking and then NOT doing a thing.

How is it that we have fallen down under the weight of laws and rules that paralyze the normal folk from being able to protect a child and we are okay with it???

What I have found, it was that the abuse was so hard to imagine, BUT rather the way our laws, courts and agencies are so tied up THEY can't do one thing to help a child.

Imagine, there are rules that will not allow them to use their own common sense.  It isn't that they don't believe the stories being told or the evidence being gathered, BUT none of it will float with the rules and laws.  

All who have encountered the pleas of a mother and her children Do Believe…but few can raise a finger to help.

The greater feeling of being helpless outside of being abused…is when you try and stop the abuse from happening and can't.

It is like being a victim of society and its rules.  Being a victim of an agencies red tape. Being a victim of the prosecutors busy schedule and it is Election time…Being a victim…while trying to not be a victim anymore.

How is it okay for us to abuse the victims who step forth?  Who are trying like hell to protect their children. They couldn't stop it in the home, in the confines of their marriage and family, and now that they have dared to get out….no one is standing there who can help?

The general public has nothing to offer. Nothing but empathy…a hollow sorry.  

Really?  

What makes a person almost go insane is the amount of folks who know….and do nothing.  We are all guilty of knowing and doing nothing IF we don't change how sexual abuse cases are handled. We are all guilty of not protecting the children, while we allow these insane rules stand.  

Common sense has to be returned to the land.  

If our laws are not protecting the innocent, whose laws are these?

Maybe it is time we no longer are okay with agencies whose funding is for protecting the children and it is spent on keeping the abuser innocent.

The tide has to turn or evil will prevail.

All it takes is for a few good law abiding citizens do follow the rules….rules that we all know are insane. Some sane person has to start the ball rolling to change the rules.