November 2012

  • Sing your own Song.

    A few of the worst habits that comes with abuse and being raised in a very strict religion are the ideas that change will happen when the other person changes…or when life has the right and perfect climate. That we… Continue reading

  • Born to do.

    I listened to Jean Houston on Oprah's Soul Series speak about the Heroes Journey…how we are asked to follow the lure of our souls…or die. I understood this.  I felt that I didn't have a choice but to follow where… Continue reading

  • Know your path.

    I had wrote a post a long while back about being the bus driver instead of a passenger, and as I began doing yoga again to heal my legs…I know this to be true. I was raised a passenger….one who… Continue reading

  • Walk Alone

    My Thanksgiving thoughts fit better on this blog…they are more retrospective than looking ahead.  I feel thankful for all the deep dark days of sorrow…all the valleys where I was able to leave all the material matters to rest, and… Continue reading

  • From Here.

    This blog has been a great place for me to speak and to be heard.  Even if, just one person were to read it…I was heard.   This blog has offered me a place to talk about abuse, to say… Continue reading

  • In Order to Live

    Here is a post from Facebook that I found intriguing and very familiar. "~Tina H How to Identify Being a Narcissistic Extension Narcissism is a complex and often misunderstood character disorder. Less attention has been paid to the person who… Continue reading

  • End abuse

    The greatest tragedy of abuse isn't that you were abused, but rather that you never get your self worth back, that somehow the seed that was planted of you being less, grows and flourishes; and you never know your innocence… Continue reading

  • Parent’s False Image

    "I was not drawn to this quote because it helped me to understand narcissism or narcissistic behaviour but because it reminded me of how much I was willing to see myself as ‘the problem’ when I first began the healing… Continue reading

  • Survival Mode and an Alternate View of Narcissism

    Survival Mode and an Alternate View of Narcissism. Please read this article….it is amazing in how it sets up the frame work that disables the child and hides the abuser….and how it continues on into the present day within my… Continue reading

  • Around My Little Girl

    "Being true to who we are means carrying our spirit like a candle in the center of our darkness."  "If we are to live without silencing or numbing essential parts of who we are, a vow must be invoked and… Continue reading