January 2014

  • Wrought with abuse…

    Another section of "Thou Shalt Not Be Aware" by Alice Miller. "This is why I keep trying to explain my position with the aid of various images and concepts. I always regard myself as the advocate for the child in… Continue reading

  • Holding the truth…

    Today I worked on making journals…to give away.  These are fun for me to do, like making mini quilts. I like that these journals have pretty covers, for inside the raw truth is often painful…to express. Words written seem less… Continue reading

  • A hero for someone.

      We all need to be more aware of not only ourselves, but with those around us. And, I like what he says, about when you doubt whether you should get involved, think on the side of the victim.  Will… Continue reading

  • Believing the Child

     Another section of Alice Miller's book, "Thou Shalt Not Be Aware: Society's Betrayal of the Child."   I know it is long…but it shows how the child is missed and why in most therapy sessions…while the parents get their full… Continue reading

  • “Thou Shalt Not Be Aware.”

    I began another Alice Miller book, "Thou Shalt Not Be Aware"…and I could highlight the whole thing so far! She writes, "Our will for survival will never push us to invent painful stories, rather the contrary: to make up nice… Continue reading

  • Beauty in the Woods!

    Ever since we have gotten snow such huge amounts of snow, I wondered how the flags were doing in the woods…from my daughter's wedding.  This morning my daughter and I snowshoed in to see how the woods were decorated. And,… Continue reading

  • Sunrise!

    This was a sunrise a few days back and I LOVED the Bright Orange in the contrast with the white snow…so, I was inspired to try this in a quilt. And, here is a closer view.  I loved the boots,… Continue reading

  • Believing it is Love.

    The hardest part of living with the affects of childhood abuse, is that you have lived with a damaged mind, and have very little if any recollection of the Mind Before the Abuse. For how can you know your mind… Continue reading

  • Childhood Sexual Abuse is harmful to the Brain!

    There is a misconception that child abuse is an event in childhood, period. It happened a long time ago and IT IS OVER! This article shows how wrong that is…   The effects of childhood sexual and physical abuse last… Continue reading

  • My Potentials!

    This year as I sat with the thoughts of resolutions, I felt that I would do more of what I love…to as one quote said, "Ponder the potentials" in my life. How different is this concept instead of pondering what… Continue reading