I M Perfect lady

May 2014

  • Inside

    "Through our children, we get orchestra seats to the complex theatrics of our immaturity, as they evoke powerful emotions in us that can cause us to feel as though we aren't in control – with all the frustration, insecurity, and… Continue reading

  • Be Free

    "Letting go of your attachment to your vision of parenthood and your desire to write your children's future is the hardest psychic death to endure. It demands that you drop all prior agendas and enter a state of pure release… Continue reading

  • See our Children.

     "The Conscious Parent" "This book isn't a" how to" manual because such manuals miss the point of the present moment nature of conscious parenting. What I want to make clear is that the how to is built into each situation… Continue reading

  • Out of control.

    More from "The Conscious Parent" by Dr. Shefali Tsabary… "Because we interact with our children based on how we were raised, before we know it – and despite our best intentions – we find ourselves recreating the dynamics of our… Continue reading

  • Children in Peace.

    "The Conscious Parent" by Dr. Shefali Tsabary is a 100% turnaround from what most parents have been doing.  It is a much needed change to bring resolution to the dysfunction that is bringing such pain to our children. She writes.… Continue reading

  • Real Person

    This truly would change the world…"The Conscious Parent" by Dr. Shefali Tsabary. In the first few pages… "Many of us don't consider how the way we parent affects our children, which might cause us to change our approach.  Does the… Continue reading

  • Reconcile my past.

    I am re-reading a book "The Body Never Lies" by Alice Miller.  She and her viewpoints make complete sense to me.   She writes.  "In his famous novel Fateless, the Hungarian writer and Nobel laureate Imre Kertesz describes his arrival… Continue reading

  • Mother’s eyes.

    With Mother's Day, comes a sense of doing something, honor or acknowledge memories and acts of love…dedication to the woman of our childhood…or the role model we followed.  We see our mother through our childhood experiences. As a mother, you… Continue reading

  • Set the bar high.

    The reason we have been married for 27 years, is the fact that my husband is a kind man.  His kindness and caring for his kids goes beyond the outer edge of great. While some women would be upset that… Continue reading

  • Reverence

      I named this quilt "Reverence" and here are the words that I wrote about this quilt. "I stand in reverence of my old self…it wasn't an easy life to live so shut down, choiceless and voiceless…to keep my truth… Continue reading