December 2022

  • Be Yourself

    "Every year you make a resolution to change yourself. This year make a resolution to be yourself."  Author Unknown   My granddaughter and I were in the basement creating – there is a chair that is painted with a collage of words… Continue reading

  • Feeling Unworthy

    Sending love to the deconstructedchurch kids that have a weirdrelationship with Christmas.The melancholy or isolatedthe ones doing their best to salvagethe good stuff. The ones reimaginingit for the kids, or tossing it altogether.You're seen and you're doing great. This was… Continue reading

  • Sees her Child

    My annual correspondence arrives. "Have a birthday doing what is important to you.  I treasure the memories of your years with our family. You were a great help and I was proud of all you accomplished. I am your mother… Continue reading

  • Home On the Untraveled Road

    Today I sit with the date December 4th and how 18 years ago I began my journey of leaving my family and church.   I discovered I was brainwashed and how my perception of reality was gravely affected by abuse… Continue reading