bjukuri
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Change the Rules.
The insanity of a civilized society and its rules, is it ties the hands that are suppose to protect the children…while keeping abusers free. Tell me how this is sane? How is it okay when a mother is unable to… Continue reading
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Creating WIND
Going to WIND is like going to Recess, where you just arrive and play. What I love is t…. no agenda, no meeting notes, no usual format to follow; rather we come to play and enjoy each other's company. And… Continue reading
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On the First Date.
Thirty years ago I went on a date with a man I had been talking to on the phone for about 6 months. We came from two different lives and I was unsure yet very attracted. It was going against… Continue reading
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Change is Beautiful!
Sunday was a beautiful day and I did get out to enjoy the Fall Colors…. Nature has a way of restoring my balance, settling my soul, and brings life into focus. Reminding me that the Universe has things all under… Continue reading
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Poke Holes in the Spell.
I found myself in a strange spot, where my intentions never made it to their home, where my concerns were intercepted by anger and judgment. My love and concern left my body and before they landed, anger and judgment… Continue reading
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Breaking the Silence of Abuse.
My quilts arrive at Fisher Hall, 135. The venue wasn't quite prepared for them, but we managed to get them on display. They held their own, caught a few eyes…Even if the students didn't attend the RAINN movie and discussion,… Continue reading
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Doing Nothing.
"Few situations can be bettered by going berserk." —MELODY BEATTIE "It was the philosopher Michael Zimmerman who told the story of being a boy in school when someone passed him a pair of Chinese handcuffs, a seemingly innocent thimblelike casing… Continue reading
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Breaking into your life!
My Lady Quilts are leaving the basement again, they have another appearance scheduled. RAINN (Rape, Assault, Incest, National Network) will be held at Michigan Tech's Fisher Hall at 7:30 on September 27….tomorrow evening. I will be on the panel, there… Continue reading
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No longer fighting reality.
For the past 7 and a half years, I have been working on my inner landscape, trying to sort through files and beliefs that were built to protect and hide the darkness of abuse within the Huhta family. I… Continue reading
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Cover Up
In listening to Iyanla Vanzant speak to Oprah about Family Secrets, I learned a few things. One, that secrets are usually to protect someone….and secondly, that it is due to shame and guilt. Also, Fear of a consequence IF… Continue reading
