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  • All of Life’s Realities.

    It is my 53rd Birthday, and I feel so young at heart yet wise beyond my years. I feel so wondrous in Spirit and the weight of a life's journey…Light but knowing the journey it took to get here. The… Continue reading

  • Parents Call Family.

    I came across this paragraph in "Codependent No More" by Melody Beatte.  "Codependents are indirect. We don't say what mean, we don't mean what we say.  We don't do this on purpose. We do it because we've learned to communicate… Continue reading

  • The Grieving Process

    I am rereading Melody Beatte's book, "Codependent No More," and I am very surprised to see how she spends a lot of time on the grieving process. She writes, ‎"A codependent person or a chemically dependent person may be in… Continue reading

  • The Silence of a Church

    "I like the silence of a church, before the service begins better than any preaching."  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson  I love this picture, it has so many different meanings… I found that I love churches, and really love empty ones.  I… Continue reading

  • Impeccable.

    There are laws of the Universe that no religion or man can upset, nor can you alter another's karma in any way. It isn't that I subscribe to Eastern Philosophy, but the physics of life are no longer a mystery… Continue reading

  • Dream it differently.

    It seems like life can be broken down into two categories; those who are dream weavers about reality and those who walk right down the middle of reality.   I have lived both ways…and know that the dream weavers are… Continue reading

  • Living Vicariously.

    In the last blog post about Authoritarian child rearing…where the child is taught to listen to the parent, always…and forget how IT feels and how the parents are not open to a new way of seeing the world, PERHAPS from… Continue reading

  • Authoritarian Lifestyle.

    ‎‎"Since authoritarian parents are always right, there is no need for their children to rack their brains in each case to determine whether what is demanded of them is right or not. And how is this to be judged? Where… Continue reading

  • I need nothing from Christmas.

    What I haven't realized until it was gone, are the feelings of heaviness and weight of the added stress of holidays…What I had thought was extra work, was actually being slammed by feelings. Feelings come alive and merge and meld… Continue reading

  • Much more alike than different.

    Only a few percentage of lives make the paper, are the headlines and open for discussion, while many others experience the same things, but never get caught or press charges.   There are many lives behind each Newspaper Story, there… Continue reading