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  • Feeling the Unbounded Heart.

    In Martha Beck's book, "Leaving the Saints" she writes, " I recall its horror and beauty, the enormity of the things I have lost and the incalculable preciousness of the things I have gained. I wouldn't give up the journey… Continue reading

  • We are denied our truth.

    Yesterday I listened to the end of The 19th Wifeand heard the ponderings of Brigham Young as he had to explain his marriages to the outside world. The 19th wife was suing for alimony after she left the faith…And it… Continue reading

  • Freedom isn’t gained by doing Nothing.

    We do not err because truth is difficult to see. It isvisible at a glance. We err because this is more comfortable. ~AlexanderSolzhenitsyn While I have known that it takes folks with great courageto speak out, I didn’t realize ALL… Continue reading

  • Sooner or Later

    I had made a comment that sounds like an oxymoron, “Prisoners of Faith”.  The two don’t seem to mix, and churches seem a far cry from prisons, but in my experience, if you are not free to live, you are… Continue reading

  • Unconditionally loving the Abuser.

    As human beings we are used to riding along and adjusting to change, but we are not used to being “the change you want to see in your world” as Gandhi put it. We want change and we want it… Continue reading

  • It is ill fitting in their worlds.

    What I discovered in telling my story is that people get lost in their own lives while listening…lost in trying to defend and discern if my story matches theirs. It isn’t being told to match yours, it is merely being… Continue reading

  • Walks with me in the Dark

    While I was away on a long weekend getaway with my husband, a few comments appeared and a few emails, to the last few posts. Here is the deal.  I am only writing about my experience with the people of… Continue reading

  • The opposite of what it looks like.

    What I am continually shocked with is what lies beneath the ‘good’ Christian folks from the FALC.  How on the surface there remains a veneer of smooth carefully constructed Norman Rockwell painting and underneath lies the drawings of an insane… Continue reading

  • Eyes of a Child

    While mowing the grass last night it came to me that the attacking and jousting for position isn’t about whether there is abuse or not abuse, what was right or wrong, or even the way it is treated or not… Continue reading

  • A Pattern without Abuse.

    “Two wrongs don’t make it right…” came to mind yesterday and I can see clearly how a child gets so lost after being abused, how the negative energies keep piling up.  ‘Good’ folks who are unaware of what their actions… Continue reading