I heard today on Sirius Radio, “The greater the selfishness, the bigger the hurt or wound.  When you are so injured that you can’t see beyond your injuries, it makes you very self-centered.”  It was on the Dr. Robin Smith’s… Continue reading

We are on a teeter-totter, when someone’s up the other is down.  Up and down, down and up!   Is it a fallacy that parents and children can be on the same page, to think alike and move alike and… Continue reading

To be attentive, involved and inspiring without being overbearing, directive and threatening, how to navigate the tender waters of your children’s lives?     Slipping in with a question can cause tidal waves of distress or just stress and confusion,… Continue reading

Our family watched a movie the other night, “The Boy in the Stripped Pajama’s.” About two boys during the war in Germany, one boy lived in the work/death camp and the other’s father was a high-ranking soldier in charge of… Continue reading

Trying is Failing with honor, is a quote that my brother often said, I am unsure of its origin.   What does that mean?  Trying is failing with honor. Are we succeeding at not doing something?   Trying is a… Continue reading

Self worth, what is self worth and how do we decide what makes us valuable?  Is there a scale we step upon and find out if we are worthy or not?  Who decides if we have hit the mark, or… Continue reading

Is it one grand dream and a gazillion views and dialogues about what is actually happening?  Do we each as individuals see it from our own perspective with a story that we have come to know as our lives?   … Continue reading

My sister’s Birthday is today, I think it is her 40th.  I have not seen this sister in about 8 years or so, and I have not spoken to her in close to five years.   It is a weird… Continue reading

  Who decides it is time to change?  Do we?  Is there a master plan and we change according to plan?  Is it something we have to learn, to practice, or does life happen and changes are required?  Required because… Continue reading

There seems to be just two ways to live your life, either pretending or tending.  Tending to the truth of what is, or pretending it doesn’t exits!  Tending or pretending sounds simple, except when the truth is hurtful to you… Continue reading