I M Perfect lady

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  • I walked into my old church yesterday.  The little one on Pine Street in Hancock.  It felt surreal walking in the small lobby and entering into the little sanctuary.  Seeing the door on the right side of the pulpit where… Continue reading

  • Be Heard.

    "Silent Witnesses".  What a powerful statement.  We are witnesses of many things and often don't see the correlation between the action and the witnessing of it. I have been asked to have a conversation with a few people who are… Continue reading

  • Your List.

    When it comes to doing things just for your Self or for keeping your word, I believe that women are by far worse at leaving themselves, to take care of others.  It doesn't even matter the date they promised themselves… Continue reading

  • Be You!

        I think I figured out the reason Cancellation is such a trigger for me.  In the old days when I was separated from me due to religion and abuse, I didn't know how to stand firm for me.… Continue reading

  • When they cancel.

    I have been wondering about the reasons people change their minds. What causes them to make plans only to cancel?  Was it the thoughtless Yes in the first place; where they didn't really think through what they were saying yes… Continue reading

  • You got this!!

    An idea turns into a dream.  You then take steps to make that dream a reality. You take steps in the direction of your dream.  You learn new things.  You stretch in ways you couldn't imagine.  You grow and change;… Continue reading

  • Reality Arose

    More wonderful insights from "Trust" by Iyanla Vanzant"   "When you are taught to think that you are inherently wrong, that something is wrong with you, and/or that you are guilty, you see others in the same light. These thought… Continue reading

  • Unmet Needs

    The concept that unmet needs drive our worlds, and cause blindness to reality, is the most insightful.  It totally explains the dynamics of a dysfunctional home.  The core of word dysfunction really. Here is the deal.  In a dysfunctional home,… Continue reading

  • Waiting For

    While reading about trust, I found the piece of the puzzle that always puzzled me.   My passion and interest has been the complex nature of abuse and its generational clutches. How it seems this cycle is so damn hard… Continue reading

  • More from "Trust" by Iyanla Vanzant "MISMATCHES: EXPECTATIONS VERSUS CAPACITY" "When you are intimate with a person you have an opportunity to observe their actual capacities. When there is a mismatch between the expectations of one person and the capacity… Continue reading