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  • Imperfectly Me.

    Yesterday morning, after a sleepless night I wrote the post about unconditional love, about knowing to the depth of my soul, no matter what I will not be the one to abuse my wounded child. I let go of all… Continue reading

  • A Man abusing a woman.

    I have such great admiration for the choreography of the Universe, how it manages to give to you the right and perfect set up to heal your wounded self. In my quest for wholeness, the main theme has been feeling… Continue reading

  • I was Missing?

    One theme of fear that has nagged at me in the past six years is; I don’t belong. I don’t match, I don’t fit in, I am different, I am at odds with those around me. I stand out; I… Continue reading

  • Activating Inner Compassion.

    “The Presence Process” by Michael Brown Activating Inner Compassion The Intent to re-establish a loving relationship with our child self activates the procedure of learning how to become our own parent. Connecting with our child self calls us to step… Continue reading

  • Growing Up.

    I heard my own words coming back to me, I listened to what I sounded like, it was a live tape recorder, my son. “You are not listening to me.” “Why are you being so difficult?” “Why do you have… Continue reading

  • The Neglected Child

    “Do not leave child unattended” is a sign that should be on the inside of my eyelids. I was surprised to find that I too was unattended. I was one of the ones she left when she went on a… Continue reading

  • Dismissing the Messenger.

    In Michael Brown’s book The Presence Process, he speaks of dismissing the messenger. “The first step is to acknowledge that the person or event setting us up has nothing to do with what is actually happening; they are just “the… Continue reading

  • Joined them back together.

    The way I described this past Christmas was an ugly beautiful one, where inside I was so dark and the outside so light, how mental psyche steers my world, not the decorations on the outside. I was clearly shown that… Continue reading

  • Where I stopped caring for me.

    As I read back a few days in my blog, I saw where the trimmings had a hold of me and almost ruined Christmas, and then the actions and expectations did the job the trimmings had started. It is like… Continue reading

  • Actions towards Self.

    On facebook as we all add cartoon characters to our profile to stand against child abuse, we are just nudging the tip of the iceberg and the action steps needed are not for the faint of heart. I watched my… Continue reading