co-dependency

  • Be you alone.

    Yesterday I was asked if I felt lonely and I felt inside of myself and I didn’t, but I understood lonely and have been there often. Yet what I failed to understand until I started writing today was that lonely… Continue reading

  • Towing others around.

    Last night I dreamt I was peddling a bike that was pulling a big trailer. On the trailer was my husband a lot of junk. Behind me sharing a seat was an unidentified stranger whose feet kept getting in the… Continue reading

  • Against my Mind.

    What an odd Christmas I had, it was almost like an out of body experience, certainly out of control, where Christmas joy seemed to mock me outside, yet inside lay a storm of hurt, anger, sorrow, confusion, resentment, more confusion… Continue reading

  • The Cost of my Peace!

    I finally figured out what I can’t accept in having to accept.   I can’t accept that someone can’t change.   And I guess that is not the meaning of acceptance.  I want acceptance with a clause.   I want… Continue reading

  • Chain of Co-dependency

    “The moment a child is born, the mother is also born.  She never existed before.  The woman existed, but the mother, never.  A mother is something absolutely new. “           ~Rajneesh   It is incredible that a mother… Continue reading

  • I Did It!

    It was a photo finish; my 60-day yoga challenge ended about the same time my co-dependent life challenge stopped or was recognized deeply.   I looked up the word co-dependent.   co·de·pen·dent ( kō ' dĭ-pĕn ' dənt ) adj.… Continue reading

  • Nature showed me how.

      Below is a segment of a chapter in the book Awakening Intuition by Dr. Mona Lisa Schulz.   “What is the essence of nurturance?  We might find it in a certain South African Fish.  The male fish is the… Continue reading