co-dependent
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Disguised as kindness.
The word compliment and its twisting definition is trying to find true meaning in my head, for I feel that compliments are an outside expression we are trying to own, like hand-me-down self worth and self esteem. When I… Continue reading
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My own Little Plot
It is hard to believe that I lived a life without a self that I had disappeared from my life and had not even noticed it, for I left my life before I had a life. Without knowing I… Continue reading
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Living Alive
The word comfortable is a word that will not always speak the truth, it will not say as much about the surrounding reality, but rather your state of being. How do I explain being comfortable in a dysfunctional home, to… Continue reading
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Not the Tail…
When one person in a relationship changes, the relationship changes, for you are asked to adjust yourself. We are like two moving puzzle pieces that keep losing their shapes and we have to move and work to fit back together.… Continue reading
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While waiting…
What came to me today while mindlessly tossing mail, was that the reason I was so sorely affected by my daughter’s life, was that her life was in my life, that we didn’t have a clear and separate space between… Continue reading
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Caretaker of Me!
“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning… Continue reading
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Real Me.
“Some people will not tolerate such emotional honesty in communication. They would rather defend their dishonesty on the grounds that it might hurt others. Therefore, having rationalized their phoniness into nobility, they settle for superficial relationships.” ~Author Unknown When… Continue reading
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Living Solo
Learning how to navigate life by using the inner signs, sensations, feelings, is like driver's training for being in a body. Body training is something we all need to learn in order to live freely, instead of attached to another.… Continue reading
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