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Gaining a friend
When I began writing, it was all about finding the truth. I was so lost in knowing what was the truth and what was not…I wrote to find my way. The reasons for this is that speaking the truth is… Continue reading
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Impeccable.
There are laws of the Universe that no religion or man can upset, nor can you alter another's karma in any way. It isn't that I subscribe to Eastern Philosophy, but the physics of life are no longer a mystery… Continue reading
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Wishing is a train out of Reality.
Forceful kindness is a phrase I had used to describe how some may take your power, how they keep pushing kindness to make you believe or feel something…it isn't just kindness, it is kindness with an agenda. Kindness that is… Continue reading
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Authentically inauthentic.
I had to look up the word Authentic, to see if I clearly understood what that means and is there a difference in being authentic and having an authentic relationship. Authentic, "Of Undisputed Origin"…"authentic, genuine, bona fide mean being actually… Continue reading
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Less abusive to live a lie.
"We call it 'verbal abuse' when someone tells us the truth about ourselves and we don't want to hear it." Byron Katie The above sentence stayed with me and it occurred to me that we have been taught or… Continue reading
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Recognize the Real Me.
I wonder why it is so hard to look objectively at your self, why it is so hard to see that which you are. Doesn't it seem literally impossible to overlook yourself while you are being yourself? Why is it… Continue reading
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A False Appearance Called You.
Between the comments, a conversation and reading, it came to me that this isn’t unusual this indirect conversations. And in fact, the bigger the ‘secret’ or point the bigger the fear and the consequences or fall out will be. There… Continue reading
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My own Little Plot
It is hard to believe that I lived a life without a self that I had disappeared from my life and had not even noticed it, for I left my life before I had a life. Without knowing I… Continue reading
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Survivor Self.
The Drama of the Gifted Child – The search of the true self, by Alice Miller. Here is what she writes on the back cover of the book. “Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide… Continue reading
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Alice Miller, again. I love her fearlessness.
Chapter 4 in Banished Knowledge by Alice Miller titled “Why I Reject Psychoanalysis Also as a Therapy Method.” “Following my interview for the April 1987 issue of the German Journal Psychologie heute (Psychology Today), in which I declared my break… Continue reading
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