December 2009

  • In Charge Of Me!

    What a great realization that their mess is their mess, their enlightenment is their enlightenment, their life is theirs, to put into prospective what is rightfully my own.   Imagine living with a bunch of lives within you, to be… Continue reading

  • Happy Birthday To Me!

    Michael Brown writes about joy;  “In ‘time’ we confuse joy with the outer changing experience of happiness, and we confuse creativity with the outer busy-ness of making or accumulating ‘stuff’.  Yet joy is not about feeling good; it’s about feeling… Continue reading

  • You Can Walk Alone.

    I saw a glimpse of myself yesterday, a reluctant woman standing there, unable or even having the desire to walk away.   The game is over, the race is completed, the field is empty, it is all over and I… Continue reading

  • To What End?

    Between going back in my blog and reading Martha Beck’s book, “Leaving the Saints,” I see how it always falls into just two sides.   It seems very cut and dried, just two people and their view of the same… Continue reading

  • A Pretend Story In Front of It.

    "One isn't necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We can't be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest."     Maya Angelou   While rereading many of my… Continue reading

  • Gratitude of You.

    (I wanted to re-post this one too…..)   Imagine if you will, two people with Posttraumatic Relationship Disorder, meeting the opposite person they were usually drawn to, yet forming a bond.   If you understand the disorder, we are drawn… Continue reading

  • A Hoarder of Pain and Discomfort!

    “When we accept all of life’s contradictions, when we can comfortably flow between the banks of pleasure and pain, experiencing them both while getting stuck in neither, then we are free.”   Deepak Chopra   Below is from “The Presence Process”… Continue reading

  • I am a Perfect Guru of Me!

    I am in the 9th month of blogging, and am looking for my top ten posts, it seems an impossible task, to put favor one over another. So, here is another one that I wanted to repost.   Without the understanding… Continue reading

  • What is your Attitude?

    While reading my past blog posts, I came upon this one.  I want to re-post it. In the past few days I have had the opportunity to bump into many of my past girlfriends, some as far back as 40… Continue reading

  • No One Can Do It For You.

    I first heard about the five stages of grief in Forgiveness from Connie Domino and her book “The Law of Forgiveness,” which I have not read, yet.   I heard her in a conversation about how feelings and thoughts have… Continue reading