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  • A letter to them.

    Byron Katie has what she calls, A Judge Your Neighbor Worksheet. (Byron Katie,  thework.com )  And on that sheet you are to be as petty, and judgmental about someone who you feel causes you stressful thoughts.   While rereading the message my… Continue reading

  • I have nothing to make you stay.

    My sister’s words bounce off the walls of the now empty room where a family used to reside like a hollowed out cavern absent to love and life.  Dead.   Each time a family member walks up, seeking to reconnect… Continue reading

  • I can no longer call you sister.

    Remember I asked my ‘second sister’ who requested to be my friend, why;   Here is the message that I sent her it was short.   Beth Jukuri November 8 at 7:39am I am very interested in knowing why you… Continue reading

  • I will never call you home again.

    I just finished watching the webcast, Say You're One of Them with author Uwem Akpan's on Oprah.com  The book has short stories from the view of the child.    At the end of the webcast is a young man from… Continue reading

  • Writing the Story of You.

    Yesterday I heard Don Miller who wrote a book called, “A Million Miles, a Thousand Hours. He speaks about what would the world miss if you were to die?  He also stated we grow from places of conflict and that… Continue reading

  • What a Grateful Sound.

    Iron John, by Robert Bly.   Gaining a Four-Legged Horse   A remarkable detail that leaps out of this scene and demands some interpretation is the three-legged horse that the boy finds in the stable.  This three-legged horse doesn’t feel… Continue reading

  • Keeper of the Door.

    The Warrior Inside – Iron Man by Robert Bly   The warriors inside American men have been weak in recent years, and their weakness contributes to the lack of boundaries, a condition which earlier in this book we spoke of… Continue reading

  • What will be the reply?

    A broken family, what does that mean?  Maybe it would be easier to describe a not broken one.   I have another sister that requested me as a “friend” on Facebook, can that really happen?   We are broken sisters,… Continue reading

  • My Walled Garden.

        More from Iron John, by Robert Bly.   “If a man or woman has been sexually abused in childhood, or has lived in any form of a ‘dysfunctional family,’ he or she will need sooner or later a… Continue reading

  • A Big Bubble of Me.

    The word LOVE brings with it such energy and Light, it brightens up spaces and brings wholeness where before less than appeared.   People walk around feeling so defeated, if they don’t HAVE love.   Like Love is an object… Continue reading