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Books

  • Inside

    "Through our children, we get orchestra seats to the complex theatrics of our immaturity, as they evoke powerful emotions in us that can cause us to feel as though we aren't in control – with all the frustration, insecurity, and… Continue reading

  • Be Free

    "Letting go of your attachment to your vision of parenthood and your desire to write your children's future is the hardest psychic death to endure. It demands that you drop all prior agendas and enter a state of pure release… Continue reading

  • See our Children.

     "The Conscious Parent" "This book isn't a" how to" manual because such manuals miss the point of the present moment nature of conscious parenting. What I want to make clear is that the how to is built into each situation… Continue reading

  • Out of control.

    More from "The Conscious Parent" by Dr. Shefali Tsabary… "Because we interact with our children based on how we were raised, before we know it – and despite our best intentions – we find ourselves recreating the dynamics of our… Continue reading

  • Children in Peace.

    "The Conscious Parent" by Dr. Shefali Tsabary is a 100% turnaround from what most parents have been doing.  It is a much needed change to bring resolution to the dysfunction that is bringing such pain to our children. She writes.… Continue reading

  • Real Person

    This truly would change the world…"The Conscious Parent" by Dr. Shefali Tsabary. In the first few pages… "Many of us don't consider how the way we parent affects our children, which might cause us to change our approach.  Does the… Continue reading

  • Reconcile my past.

    I am re-reading a book "The Body Never Lies" by Alice Miller.  She and her viewpoints make complete sense to me.   She writes.  "In his famous novel Fateless, the Hungarian writer and Nobel laureate Imre Kertesz describes his arrival… Continue reading

  • Begin Being You.

    I had a blog written about Yearning, and in the meanwhile (site was down), I thought about the difference between Yearning and Waiting…and was there even a difference? Yearning is a longing. Waiting is…well, I had to look it up.… Continue reading

  • What are you Longing for?

    I listened to Sue Monk Kidd being interviewed by Oprah and a few things really struck me.  One, what is your heart's deepest desire, what are you longing for? She believes that this is the voice of your soul….I do… Continue reading

  • Steer clear of the past.

    "And his silence wasn't just a cultural stoicism, it was a misguided idea of victory. I've always thought that by trying to ignore those memories I take away their power, because I feel like such a victim when I think… Continue reading