I M Perfect lady

Examples of an Imperfect woman

  • Pedals of his Life.

    What a great visual for co-dependency to see a person peddling a bike pulling a trailer with someone sharing the seat, but dragging their feet, a third person giving orders as where and when to stop. The life of a… Continue reading

  • Towing others around.

    Last night I dreamt I was peddling a bike that was pulling a big trailer. On the trailer was my husband a lot of junk. Behind me sharing a seat was an unidentified stranger whose feet kept getting in the… Continue reading

  • Growing Up.

    I heard my own words coming back to me, I listened to what I sounded like, it was a live tape recorder, my son. “You are not listening to me.” “Why are you being so difficult?” “Why do you have… Continue reading

  • My own load I can manage.

    What I experienced was the karmic wheel that was much larger than what I seen of my boss’s one day. This was an energy that had been repressed and bundled in fear. Each moment in my life where I felt… Continue reading

  • Attend to me.

    In the past few days I have been tangled and untangled, in the present and in the past, with my mother and with my boss, young and then old, a child then an adult, feelings from the past trickling into… Continue reading

  • Dismissing the Messenger.

    In Michael Brown’s book The Presence Process, he speaks of dismissing the messenger. “The first step is to acknowledge that the person or event setting us up has nothing to do with what is actually happening; they are just “the… Continue reading

  • Innocent day in the Future.

    I watched a bad day unfold and witnessed the innocent bystander caught up in its throes, and was shocked to see it in slow motion, seeing the day as innocent and the person actually doing the bad day to her… Continue reading

  • Ladder of High Self-Esteem

    While I intuitively knew that my actions would have an affect on my children that they would respond to however I moved that we were joined together as one unit and that if I always thought of them when I… Continue reading

  • A new you emerges…

    “When patterns are broken, new worlds emerge.” ~Tuli Kupferberg Somehow this quote paints a scene of great Art, of stepping out of the box and being presented with a wondrous new world. In my experience breaking an old pattern requires… Continue reading

  • Choices we make.

    What I want to know is do we all have the same choices and the same mechanism that selects them? Is it possible that some of us have choices while others do not? What makes some of us change our… Continue reading