Examples of an Imperfect woman
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“I am Mental”
And, Alice Miller again! "If I succeed in making even a few people aware of how the victimization of children is concealed by placing the blame on them, then all the misunderstandings and reproaches for being one-sided that I… Continue reading
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Comfortable being you!
In the past few days, from a variety of people and experiences, I have witnessed the word "Worry" in action. I had to see what the true meaning of the word is. "Worry" - give way to anxiety or unease; allow… Continue reading
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Behind the Art.
"It may still be decades or even centuries before humankind stops regarding the knowledge stored up in the unconscious as immaterial, as pathological fantasies of the insane or of eccentric poets, and comes to see it for what it really… Continue reading
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Allow me to see mine.
More of Alice Miller… "Many professionals respond to the new information available about child abuse with insensitivity and indifference, which I assume are primarily a reflection of their loyalty to theory and not of their own heartlessness. This reaction is… Continue reading
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Who is now a parent.
Alice Miller writes in "Thou Shalt Not Be Aware"… "The consequences of sexual abuse however, are not restricted to problems in one's sexual life; they impair the development of the self and of an automous personality. There are several reasons… Continue reading
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Parents are unloving.
When I have been contemplating and writing about everyday heroes, it came to me the twist between domestic violence campaign and how we view incest. In the first we are raising awareness campaigns and urging them to leave the abusers.… Continue reading
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What most stand up for.
I have been asked to write a guest post of Response Ability…The RESPONSE ABILITY® Project empowers people to intervene in problem situations and be an Every|Day Hero. And I have sent in three drafts so far. The tough part… Continue reading
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The Baseline for how we live.
In Alice Miller's book, "Thou Shalt Not Be Aware" she writes about groups and our need to belong. "How can it be explained psychologically that the same person who exhibits so much acumen and critical judgment concerning his enemies at… Continue reading
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I had denied Me.
In a comment on the Extoots blog post about Labels and the ensuing discussion about being judged by them, a comment struck me. "If it isn't being said, then it doesn't exist." This technique is literally the blueprint of denial;… Continue reading
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Discarding the lives of children
The only way abuse wins, is if we accept the disgrace. The stigma of being sexually abused comes from the way others look at you….and can only be overcome when you look at yourself differently. Changing their minds will not… Continue reading
I M Perfect lady 