My thoughts…

  • Your Inner Spark

    Last Sunday, while walking with my granddaughter, we met a father with two little girls walking towards us – heading towards the ice cream store at the beach.  One of the girls seen the big cone and asked her dad… Continue reading

  • Moment of Time

    How would you live life if there wasn't the application of forgiveness? If all your actions were accountable and traveled with you? Are there choices you would no longer make?   My views on forgiveness have changed completely.  I used… Continue reading

  • May She rest in Peace.

    There is a humming in the backdrop of my life – a ghostly echo from the past. Most often nowadays, it is barely perceptible – and then voices come in. Words carrying the wishes, for the lack of a better… Continue reading

  • A Legacy she can be Proud of.

    In my old body lives a young girl. Brokenhearted and at peace. I feel her most on my left side snuggled under my ribs. At times she is the lump in my throat.   She is my past and very… Continue reading

  • It’s called Artist

    Art as therapy is something that is an interesting adventure.  The piles of things I make often represent the outcome of channeling my anxiety or perhaps waylaying it.   Art in itself is odd. Being called an artist odder still.… Continue reading

  • Perceive

    Almost 19 years later and I am still wrestling with things in my mind – trying to understand the things that can't be understood.  I am not sure if folks who were not abused look so deeply into life and… Continue reading

  • Who Feel Like Home

    I was challenged today about not trusting christians.  I promised to write it out.   This is my third draft and I think I figured a few things out.   First I will be using my abusive childhood to help… Continue reading

  • Covering Up?

    I think people think, that the hardest part of speaking up about sexual abuse is the speaking up. The harder part is not being believed. My voice and my words appear powerless, and the benefit of the doubt goes to… Continue reading

  • Echoes of My Own Words

    When raised in a co-dependent household, we learn behaviors that take a lifetime to undo – We learned that we were responsible for others. That it was up to us to make them happy, keep them safe, make sure they… Continue reading

  • He Acts Like a Dad.

    Love and fear.  Everything the father of a family says must inspire one or the other.    ~Joseph Joubert   Today is Father’s Day and kids of all ages will think of their dads and of the many ways he… Continue reading