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  • I took my life back, by walking away.

    On my last blog, I received a comment and a line struck me that I want to share.  “It was an error to not stand in front of your house and scream or picket or whatever else until your dad… Continue reading

  • Resolve to Stay the Same.

    While we all know that my father transformed into a monster many times, over many years with a variety of girls, what we fail to recognize or even consider is the lack of changes in the lives of others who… Continue reading

  • Back to the Lake of Innocence.

    The previous post’s pictures articulate the changes, and how in fact the little girl continues to look the same, but now feels like that dirty lake resides inside of her, by the actions done to her and the lack of… Continue reading

  • We either hide your sins or own our lives.

    The main belief or what keeps the faith going is this one paragraph that Jim Torola wrote about in his Post, “Why no Movement.” “Or the FALC trump card, "it was forgiven in Jesus' Name and Precious Blood, thrown into… Continue reading

  • The enemy of Lies.

    Who I was the first 46 years is totally different than who I am now.  I went from being totally submissive, compliant and eager to please, while a bit of an outspoken person, I spoke for what I then believed…as… Continue reading

  • They speak in Lies.

    Don Miguel Ruiz said “There are two kinds of Angels, the angel of lies and the angel of truth.” Isn’t it odd to look at the two different kinds of angels? I know that my family does not like to… Continue reading

  • Total Contradictions…

    There is a difference between suspecting something and actually knowing or reading in plain English what you feared or intuitively felt…but once you read it it doesn’t go away. It nestles up closely with the feelings and they become one.… Continue reading

  • Sit and hear Why.

    It almost seems like my father’s life and its impact it had on so many little girls is the classic case, the textbook example of what happens when you ignore the truth. What happens when you feel a certain way,… Continue reading

  • Voice of my truth.

    Today I listened to the CD of The Voice of Knowledge, by Don Miguel Ruiz and Janet Mills. Here is how the book is described. "In this audio version of the fourth book in the popular series, don Miguel Ruiz… Continue reading

  • Normal Results.

    “What is your motive for Telling…” is a phrase that lends it self to much debate.  The simple fact that a child is then put in a position of feeling ‘bad’ for squealing stops many from coming forth.  No one… Continue reading