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  • Tim Ferriss Show

    It always helps to hear others speak about their childhood abuse, the affects and what has been helpful. Yesterday I listened to Tim Ferriss Show Podcast. Tim Ferriss Show https://tim.blog/2020/09/14/how-to-heal-trauma/#more-52536 He affirmed much of what I know to be true,… Continue reading

  • In the parade of life.

    There are many different small pieces of myself I have been working on. The integration of my mother's image and mine. The lack of control of have of the next generation. Mostly just focusing on being a single me. Bringing… Continue reading

  • I did nothing.

    I used to have a weird goal, to get to a place of nothing.  To get everything done, so I could then do nothing.  Doing nothing seemed to be a heaven of sorts, an idea of just being.  Not in… Continue reading

  • WIND

    I find it hard to believe that this week, WIND is 8 years old.   Eight years of fun on Wednesday nights.   Eight years of meeting new friends, learning new things and having fun experiences.   Eight years of growing in… Continue reading

  • To Be Alone

    Many years ago, I used to see my mother in my eyes.  And, it caused me to not want to look into a mirror. I didn't see her image so much as her energy.  It is hard to explain but… Continue reading

  • Who you are inside.

    What does your heart want – was a questioned posed on a podcast this week.  I don't think we ask this of ourselves very much.  We typically know what is expected of us, what others are doing, or not doing,… Continue reading

  • Caring Souls

    On a podcast, it was suggested that we write about our experiences with Covid 19, so that we can remember how it was for us during this time, and the things that stand out or were a hardship, and even… Continue reading

  • Love is Not

    The estrangement between a parent and child goes against the gravitational pull of nature.  In fact, anytime there is a breech in the contract of family, our systems will feel the pull and push with our emotions.   I wish… Continue reading

  • Never Questioned

    There is much going on in our world today, it overwhelms the mind, saddens the heart and hurts my soul.  It is hard to find a thread to untangle my thoughts.  Yet, it feels familiar in its circular unending beat.… Continue reading

  • Living Out Our Legacy

    We – here in the UP – are just over 2 months into Social Distancing, and learning about a new virus, and the ways it has affected our world.   It is new.   We have never been here before.… Continue reading