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  • Steering Our Own Canoes!

    One definition of codependency; Adult children of alcoholics; people in relationships with emotionally or mentally disturbed; people in relationships with chronically ill peoples; parents of children with behavior problems; people in relationships with irresponsible people; professionals – nurses, social workers… Continue reading

  • Loving What Is…

    We would rather be ruined than changed;We would rather die in our dreadThan climb the cross of the momentAnd let our illusions die.~W.H. Auden   What is so unreal is that we believe we can stop change that it is… Continue reading

  • The Cost of my Peace!

    I finally figured out what I can’t accept in having to accept.   I can’t accept that someone can’t change.   And I guess that is not the meaning of acceptance.  I want acceptance with a clause.   I want… Continue reading

  • Reality has no Delete Buttons

      I am way confused about the applications of religion, the way religion believes that you can hand over your burdens to God, that Jesus will carry the things you don’t want to deal with, that he is a dumping… Continue reading

  • The Sunny Side of Life!

    “Nothing we can do can change the past, but everything we do changes the future.”           Ashleigh Brilliant   Living life forward is all we can do, and the power that lies in each action sets in… Continue reading

  • A U-Turn In Your Life!

    “A bend in the road is not the end of the road… unless you fail to make the turn.”       ~Author Unknown   Each morning a bend appears, as I contemplate doing yoga another day.  I really only face… Continue reading

  • Keep Dyeing.

    Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.  John W. Gardner   When I looked at my photographs of the dyed fabric, I noticed below that nature too was dyeing.  Snow was disappearing into colors of spring and new… Continue reading

  • Start Running!

    I began a discussion yesterday about the benefits of yoga, of how amazed I was that I could literally see the affects, like muscle growth by doing 90 minutes each day.   Immediately one lady said, “I do not have… Continue reading

  • Come Dance With Me!

    “Unceasing change turns the wheel of life, and so reality is shown in all its many forms.  Dwell peacefully as change itself liberates all suffering sentient beings and brings them great joy.”           Buddhist sutra   Dwell… Continue reading