control

  • Pedals of his Life.

    What a great visual for co-dependency to see a person peddling a bike pulling a trailer with someone sharing the seat, but dragging their feet, a third person giving orders as where and when to stop. The life of a… Continue reading

  • Who has Control?

    My expectations of the New Year aren’t about the New Year but rather about me. The New Year is neutral, a pile of days linked together, and many hours in which we live our lives. What we do within those… Continue reading

  • All or None Religion.

    My mothering skills have huge pockets of All or Nothing options, accented with control and responsibility that is overly dramatic and leaves me with little options to manuver through issues that I find are out of my control.    While… Continue reading

  • Love and control only me!

    I have had a lot of changes in the past five and a half years, and all of them have been perception changes, changes that had nothing to do with the other person, in fact I have changed no one,… Continue reading

  • Ultimately you are the one in control.

    In “Reinventing The Body and Resurrecting The Soul, Deepak has a chapter called, In Your Life: Creating Your Own Epiphany.  Here is part of it. It is long but very interesting to read.   “ It’s unfortunate that the word… Continue reading