life
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Life with Empty Arms.
I prayed for twenty years but received no answer until I prayed with my legs. ~Frederick Douglass, escaped slave Last night in a dream I was able to see what I carried around, what I have been trying to… Continue reading
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Puzzle Called Me.
“The tragedy of life is not so much what men suffer, but rather what they miss.” ~Thomas Carlyle Putting together our lives is like a puzzle without a picture, we find what goes together and what doesn’t. Some… Continue reading
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I Play Where I am Happy!
“It’s easier to love a happy me,” is a comment I made and it seems profound in a very simplistic way. How can you love yourself if you are unhappy? What I found by writing is that unhappiness… Continue reading
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I picked me.
One of the side affects to being traumatized when you are little is that you can’t rely on anything, it seems that what we see can change at any time, so it leaves you standing on unsettled ground, nothing is… Continue reading
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Living without Me.
Sitting on the ‘passenger’ side of the car but driving gives you a whole new driving experience and a great metaphor for seeing life from another angle. What was natural and instinctual is now taking thought; old driving habits… Continue reading
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The Four Agreements
On the inside cover of the book, “The Four Agreements” Companion Book by Don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills reads… BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak… Continue reading
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A Mother who Walks in Reality.
Last night I read, “Hannah’s Gift” by Maria Housden, Lessons from a Life Fully Lived. What a great gift they gave each other as they bravely faced life as it unfolded for each of them, in truth. For… Continue reading
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A Willing Witness
“…grateful for your willingness to witness our loss” is part of a sentence I read on Facebook tonight, which struck me as odd that there are two kinds of witnesses. I never thought that there could be willing witnesses… Continue reading
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How can you lead your life if you follow?
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Victor Frankl The more dramatic of a change you make, it shows just how far off base you were to begin with, and… Continue reading
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Steering Our Own Canoes!
One definition of codependency; Adult children of alcoholics; people in relationships with emotionally or mentally disturbed; people in relationships with chronically ill peoples; parents of children with behavior problems; people in relationships with irresponsible people; professionals – nurses, social workers… Continue reading