I M Perfect lady


Head in the Sand.

On our travels I seen a tree that was planted upside down, its root system was above ground and it grew leaves. 

 

It did not grow upward, but rather like an umbrella, its branches/roots hanging downward.

 

These trees are not a freak of Nature, but rather have been manipulated to grow like this by a human being.  Someone has spliced their root and branch system weaving it together to make it grow this way.

 

While it appears normal, you can clearly see the roots are growing leaves!

 

There are striking similarities between this tree and a sexually abused child.

 

We didn’t start out upside down and backwards, but rather someone came along and manipulated us and from there we grew.

 

In my family, it is normal to grow this way.  We were born unto parents who were planted upside down, hence it wasn’t long and we all too were manipulated to be the same.

 

Our family tree is this upside down tree.

 

I am trying to show upside down people an upside down person, and asking them to see the differences, and they find nothing wrong.

 

Incredible, for how can they, they match!

 

They are not seeing anything wrong, anything different, all seems normal.  And it should, for we have never known our parents to be a right side up tree, nor do we remember ourselves any other way!

 

Picture a forest of upside down trees and I am walking among them trying to tell them they are all wrong.

 

Its like trying to explain that the roots belong below the earth and the leaves and branches above, while they are growing and appearing normal in this upside down and backward way.

 

It would be like telling you your head belongs where your feet are and your feet belongs where you head is.

 

And what seems to be even more incredible in a very sad way is that while they are upside down, they will raise their children the same way.  The legacy will repeat it self.

 

As my sister sees herself as being vigilant in watching my father, yet she isn’t watching herself.

 

She isn’t seeing her behavior at all.

 

How she is allowing her granddaughter access to this man who is the master manipulator to take a right side up tree and flip it, changing it forever.

 

She doesn’t see that she is bringing him something to manipulate.  He needs a young seedling.

 

His forest of upside down little girls would stop growing if he had no seedlings to flip.

 

Just looking at the forest of trees this man has touched, is mind blowing!

 

If you are one of the flipped trees, you can’t be normal, not while your head is in the sand.

 

 


Responses

  1. Jane Avatar
    Jane

    Dear Beth,
    Your thoughts and insights are very deep and thought provoken. You, Beth have to be the change to stop the upsidedownness and right the followers. You will blossom and flurrish, and those who realize their blossoms are in the sand, will change direction if they choose. It’s sad that some people can’t see the difference. But I am happy you faced the darkness straight on, and righting your tree.
    Have a wonderful day.
    Love, Jane

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  2. Jane Avatar
    Jane

    Hi Beth,
    Just wanted to share the following with you from my daily readings.
    “Remembering our true capabilities will assist us in finding the courage to be our brightest, most authentic selves.”
    ~Sue Patton Thoele
    I was impressed most with her authenticity, her willingness to genuinely reveal those parts which many of us tend to keep hidden. Sue Patton Thoele writes, “As is often the case, we teach what we most need to learn, and that was certainly true for me in writing The Courage to Be Yourself.” As a licensed psychotherapist, Sue’s writing exudes knowledge and wisdom, yet by exposing her own insecurities, she humbly walks right beside us, gently guiding us to change our self-defeating patterns of behavior, communicate effectively, and most importantly, become loving toward ourselves
    Jane

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  3. Beth Jukuri Avatar
    Beth Jukuri

    Thanks Jane. My frustrations are when I try and get them to see what I see. It helps to write and understand the situations they are in, where I am and see the total overview. I can understand, and then have to let it go, for there really isn’t anything I can do.
    They are following the law of the land, and supervising him while the little girl is there. They just don’t seem to get the total dance a pedophile does, the lure, the courtship, the attention and once all are comfortable it changes course.
    I will look up that author. Thanks for reading and understanding.
    Beth

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