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Be Yourself

"Every year you make a resolution to change yourself. This year make a resolution to be yourself."  Author Unknown

 

My granddaughter and I were in the basement creating – there is a chair that is painted with a collage of words – "Be the Real you" is one of the phrases.  She asked, "Grandma what does that mean?"

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I said, "When you feel sad – just be sad – don't pretend to be happy." She says, "Oh". 

 

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(Here I am at my display of my art therapy quilts. Being Me.)

I know that sounds simplistic – and I also know it isn't always easy to just be your real self. However, life is so so much more simple when you can.

It may be my age – but the older I get the less patience I have pretending or hiding. 

 

Making a resolution to Be Yourself – will be life changing.

It reminds me of the year Martha Beck had – where she didn't lie.  Even the little ones – where you say you're okay, when you are not.

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(This was posted on Instagram – capturing me on my way to a ladies camping trip.Totally winning at summer!)

 

At first it may seem uncomfortable, especially if you are used to hiding your real self – but over time, as you become more real – your life will be more comfortable for you to be in it.

As I look back over 2022 – looking through my photos, which are many – I had another wonderful year.  Family, Friends, Art and Adventures.  Life is good. 

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I tried new new things and look forward to learning some more.

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I had way too much fun –  Days of joy = a year of fun.

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I am not one who is happy to see this year go – I will hold on to so many memories that I made.

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And look forward to making more.  

Exploring new rivers.

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And Bike paths.

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And, hiking trails.

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Sharing my Art and finding new friends.

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As the new year approaches, I look forward to more of what I love.

May you have a year stuffed full of what makes you You.

 

Thank you to all who shared your time we me this past year and I look forward to more moments that bring me smiles as I scroll through my photos.

 

Your year will hold every choice you make – I hope you say yes to doing more of what the real you wants to do. 

May your New Year's resolution be – Be Yourself.  

 

 

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  1. Joanie Avatar
    Joanie

    Amen to being yourself. Sounds so easy but is a fairly difficult task as each of us continue to change as we age. The good news is it is possible, even if the struggle feels uncomfortable. Finding the new contentment is exciting and so full of nourishment for the mind, body and soul. Love seeing your new adventures and the wonderful smiles and togetherness you have with your Sylvi. Joanie

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  2. Mark Tulkki Avatar
    Mark Tulkki

    That was great advice given to your granddaughter.
    Everyone should be encouraged to not bottle up their sadness or feelings of lonely despair. Bringing it into the open is not only a way to let it out but it can give others the opportunity to share in the burden, even if it is just for a moment.
    It is always good to know that others can help by talking about it with us or by simply listening. This is true no matter how old we are during these times.
    I hope you are enjoying the holidays! It looks like you are keeping busy.
    Mark Tulkki

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  3. Ann Avatar
    Ann

    You are one whirlwind of positive energy, Beth. Looking at the photos made me smile. Here’s to your fabulous 2023!

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  4. I M Perfect Avatar
    I M Perfect

    Thanks Ann, I feel the years slipping by and that we only have so much time where you can be outside and physical. I want to do as many adventures as I can, while I can. Here’s to having you come on more this year!

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    I M Perfect

    Hey Mark, nice to hear from you. I agree by sharing how we feel others can help carry our tough emotions and – at very least make us feel less alone.
    I love how children are most authentic, and often we talk them out of their feelings or moods. The best thing we can teach a child is to be how they feel.
    Thanks for popping in. I hope you and yours are well.

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    I M Perfect

    Yes Joan it isn’t always easy – but the older I get the easier it is. We can now start becoming the eccentric old lady. Have fun with our last quarter of life – finding contentment with our selves and our lives is a great feeling. I love how you continue to grow and learn! And yes Sylvi and are good buddies.

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