Examples of an Imperfect woman

  • New Normal.

    Today is December 5th, December 4th slipped by almost unnoticed. I remembered it late last night.  It has been 8 years since finding out about the abuse within my childhood home. That seems like a long time.  A very long… Continue reading

  • Perfect in Change

    "I did not fail at being a basketball player nor did poetry fail me. More accurately, my inwardness evolved with enough life experience, so that moving bodily in the air evolved into the poet's dance of feeling which then evolved… Continue reading

  • Sing your own Song.

    A few of the worst habits that comes with abuse and being raised in a very strict religion are the ideas that change will happen when the other person changes…or when life has the right and perfect climate. That we… Continue reading

  • Born to do.

    I listened to Jean Houston on Oprah's Soul Series speak about the Heroes Journey…how we are asked to follow the lure of our souls…or die. I understood this.  I felt that I didn't have a choice but to follow where… Continue reading

  • Know your path.

    I had wrote a post a long while back about being the bus driver instead of a passenger, and as I began doing yoga again to heal my legs…I know this to be true. I was raised a passenger….one who… Continue reading

  • Walk Alone

    My Thanksgiving thoughts fit better on this blog…they are more retrospective than looking ahead.  I feel thankful for all the deep dark days of sorrow…all the valleys where I was able to leave all the material matters to rest, and… Continue reading

  • From Here.

    This blog has been a great place for me to speak and to be heard.  Even if, just one person were to read it…I was heard.   This blog has offered me a place to talk about abuse, to say… Continue reading

  • In Order to Live

    Here is a post from Facebook that I found intriguing and very familiar. "~Tina H How to Identify Being a Narcissistic Extension Narcissism is a complex and often misunderstood character disorder. Less attention has been paid to the person who… Continue reading

  • End abuse

    The greatest tragedy of abuse isn't that you were abused, but rather that you never get your self worth back, that somehow the seed that was planted of you being less, grows and flourishes; and you never know your innocence… Continue reading

  • Parent’s False Image

    "I was not drawn to this quote because it helped me to understand narcissism or narcissistic behaviour but because it reminded me of how much I was willing to see myself as ‘the problem’ when I first began the healing… Continue reading