I M Perfect lady

A thought came to me last night as I lay down to rest, “Being a Victim is easy….”

Being a victim requires NOTHING from you, you get to just sit and wait for the world to change.

Victims always have someone to blame you are never held accountable, you are blame free, a loving kind individual and the world is beating you up.

Someone is always coming in and wrecking your world so you lose your kind demeanor.

It is by far easier to point a finger at the cause of why you act the way you act, than it is to change your actions.

“If someone can steal your peace, You are the Loser”…says, Bikram.

I just never felt to the depth of my soul, that being a victim was the easy way out that it required less than actually making a change.

It seems that it is more painful to be a victim, but now I am wondering if that is true?  Maybe it is actually harder to change, to walk out of the old patterns, and do something different.

Make a new response; require more from your self and less from the world, to bring back to you the ownership of all your behaviors.

Instead of people out there pushing your buttons, keep your fingers on your own buttons; turn the buttons inward, so when you explode, it was you who did it, not some outside source.

Changing from victim to empower is wearing your emotional clothes inside out, so all the buttons are on the inside, where there is no one to blame but yourself, each and every time you speak or act out, you are the only one hurting yourself.

Is it possible to be Masochistic to self?

It is a cycle of self-abuse.

How is it easier to remain in that role, than it is to stop the pain?

It just doesn’t seem right that it is easier to be hurt over and over, to have your hopes and dreams dashed again and again?

How is it so much easier to be so out of control of your self?

And yet, most of the victims I know are working so hard to control the world and yet are unable to see that they are the ones out of control in their own world.

There is a slight but profound difference between being in control in a world that’s in control, or being out of control by and out of control world.

The mirror affect yet again.

If you are a victim, the world is out to get you.

When you are not, the world is out to give you all that you could ever dream and more.

It is literally impossible to be kind in a mad world, the laws of the Universe works beautifully always, "Thy will be done".