FALC

  • The Net will Open

    "Repetition is not failure. Ask the waves, ask the leaves, ask the wind. There is no expected pace for inner learning. What we need to learn comes when we need it, no matter how old or young, no matter how… Continue reading

  • A Pretend Life.

    Ed Bacon writes about Truth in his book, "8 Habits of Love – Open Your Heart, Open Your Mind". "It is important to remember that Truth is not a set of ideas anyone can memorize or systematize and then expect… Continue reading

  • Grace of Truth

    One factor in abuse, is that many are taught the wrong definition of "Unconditional" love.  Here is what Mark Nepo says about that. "Unconditional love is not so much about how we receive and endure each other, as it is… Continue reading

  • Extreme was Normal.

    In Michael Singer's book, "The Untethered Soul – The journey beyond yourself" he writes about balance or how it is to live in the extremes. "The more extreme you are, the less forward movement there is. You carve a groove… Continue reading

  • Believer of Reality.

    In the past few days, I have been wondering about the way people do not see other people, perhaps they hear their words, but totally let words eclipse an action…or let a label cover up all awkward and often hurtful… Continue reading

  • Believer of Reality.

    In the past few days, I have been wondering about the way people do not see other people, perhaps they hear their words, but totally let words eclipse an action…or let a label cover up all awkward and often hurtful… Continue reading

  • The Pathology that Ends Abuse.

    What is the pathology of family and how is this passed on to each generation? I looked up the word, "Pathology". "The science of the causes and effects of diseases and Pathological features considered collectively; the typical behavior of a disease."… Continue reading

  • Side of the Parent.

    I listened to Andrew Vachss and Oprah sharing each others thoughts about children who have been abused and what is helpful or not helpful to the child…as well as the abusers.  He is a lawyer who defends children for free. He funds… Continue reading

  • Love has no Fear

    My journey of self exploration and discovery has unearthed a multiple of crossed wires and messy connections.  It appears that I was wired all wrong due to both the cult like religion as well as abuse…leaving my perception of the… Continue reading

  • Abuse is actually showing.

    What I find so enthralling and terrorizing is that the imprint of abuse will show itself, until you process the abuse, without fail.  It will replicate itself verbatim to mimic the actual act.  Its feelings and depiction will not disappoint…unbeknownst to… Continue reading