FALC
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Who Didn’t See.
"I See You! Here I Am!" – Mark Nepo's last entry for 2012…I love it. "For centuries, African Bushmen have greeted each other in this way. When the one becomes aware of his brother or sister coming out of the… Continue reading
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I am Lucky
I am reading books by the Author Mary Pipher…and the one I picked up at the Library is "Writing to Change the World". It is a small book with writing insights that I am finding interesting. I skimmed around and… Continue reading
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I no longer play this game.
From Facebook, "Abuse No More"… The list of rules that the sociopath/narcissist expects his /her target to live by… 1. I can say anything I like. You are not allowed to say anything unless you are sure it will not… Continue reading
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End abuse
The greatest tragedy of abuse isn't that you were abused, but rather that you never get your self worth back, that somehow the seed that was planted of you being less, grows and flourishes; and you never know your innocence… Continue reading
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In Sound Judgment!
I see two main sticking points between me and my estranged family…and I am certain, they will absolutely agree. One, I drew a line in the Cement and refuse to budge. Second, that what I call the truth, they call… Continue reading
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A parent to me.
When my father's obituary was in our local paper, it was short, to the point of almost being meaningless…for it did not show the progression of his children's lives, who they married and their children. It simply had our first… Continue reading
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Poke Holes in the Spell.
I found myself in a strange spot, where my intentions never made it to their home, where my concerns were intercepted by anger and judgment. My love and concern left my body and before they landed, anger and judgment… Continue reading
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Doing Nothing.
"Few situations can be bettered by going berserk." —MELODY BEATTIE "It was the philosopher Michael Zimmerman who told the story of being a boy in school when someone passed him a pair of Chinese handcuffs, a seemingly innocent thimblelike casing… Continue reading
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No longer fighting reality.
For the past 7 and a half years, I have been working on my inner landscape, trying to sort through files and beliefs that were built to protect and hide the darkness of abuse within the Huhta family. I… Continue reading
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Cover Up
In listening to Iyanla Vanzant speak to Oprah about Family Secrets, I learned a few things. One, that secrets are usually to protect someone….and secondly, that it is due to shame and guilt. Also, Fear of a consequence IF… Continue reading
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