"Easy choices, hard life.  Hard choices, easy life."  Jerzey Gregorek   We live our life in choices, and can stall the hardness; but not escape it. There is some poetic justice to it all. I love its fairness. Nothing goes… Continue reading

  I loved the Author in this podcast so much, I ordered her book.  Dr.Edith Eger wrote her book at 90 years old.  I love that too. Below is the link to the podcast. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dr-edith-eva-eger-the-choice/id1264843400?i=1000442517079   She affirms what I… Continue reading

I heard someone talk about writing down the things they learned each week. I liked this idea.   When you think about what you are learning, your week appears different.   These are not earth shattering lessons, but just things… Continue reading

Summer Solstice is today!   Here is what I found that resonated with me. This makes Midsummer the ideal time to fully embrace everything that you love about life. During the summer solstice, the sun is shining bright, love is… Continue reading

There is a belief that can stop me from enjoying life. A belief that I need to look a certain way, and that there is a right and perfect weight and size.   This image and ideal is so ingrained… Continue reading

Memorial Day is often about those who fought for our freedom, and less about whether we are using the Freedom they fought for.  If we are trying to eliminate freedoms from others, what did they fight for? It seems that… Continue reading

There is a wall of inertia surrounding an abused child. Many immobile adults who are standing between the child and their freedom, and yet we as a society are wanting the child to speak up. To tell.  And, to keep… Continue reading

I misspoke in my last blog, about Mothers who suffer to do right by their children. I do not believe this is true. It isn't suffering as we think of suffering. It feels so different. It feels constructive and empowering… Continue reading

I sit between two mothers – my mother and my daughter. The past meets the present, and flows into the future. I have lived long enough to see the legacy living itself out. I know what I needed and I… Continue reading

My husband has been married to two women in our 32 year marriage, both lived in the same body, and their lives are so different. How do you explain the two of me? From brainwashed, to open mind. The contrasts… Continue reading