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  • Without you in it.

    In life there are people whose path we cross, that are bright spots.  Whose energy, humor, respect, and friendship add joy to your life. We didn't see each other often, but when we did, it was always a fun connection.… Continue reading

  • Easy Road

    Passive Aggressive behavior was one of the ways I was raised to respond. Instead of facing anything directly, you use a non-verbal reaction that shows your silent disapproval aggressively.   When someone does this, even today, I am flung backwards… Continue reading

  • A joyful ride

    Sometimes it feels like we are walking in circles, not getting anywhere, either personally or collectively. However, each of us carry a part of the evolution of humanity. We can only push back, IF there is something to push against. Is… Continue reading

  • Columbus day is a perfect example of something having two sides – ask the Indigenous people what they think of this day? I like that my phone calendar has both of them listed. I listened to Krista Tippett's podcast "On… Continue reading

  • Truth held with Respect.

    As a woman, a woman who has survived sexual abuse, I am left wondering how to fit reality into my future. The reality of Dr. Ford's words and how the response was so ineffective. What does this say to women who… Continue reading

  • I Believe Her

    This past week, I listened and watched Dr. Christine Blasey Ford speak.  I admire the courage it took to speak.  As she said, she was the one lone voice against many. I was surprised by my response to her speaking.… Continue reading

  • Flow Aimlessly

    If you broke your life down into categories, what would they be?  Sheri Salata spoke about the Pillars of her life. The categories of how she wants to live her life. What the important things were and then how to… Continue reading

  • Speak the words of your truth.

    When I see a victim of sexual abuse break their silence, I see a person who is breaking down the wall of disempowerment. I see them as taking back their life, and saying I will not be complacent in your… Continue reading

  • Breakers to Bridge

    It was a gorgeous sight that greeted us at the Houghton Breakwaters – the starting point of my latest challenge. The Breakers to the Bridge – Paddle Festival 2018. Julia's photo Here are the three of us at the starting… Continue reading

  • Going with the flow was an experience, not just words as we paddle on the Sturgeon River yesterday. We decide to paddle up the river, trying to make it up to the dam near Otter Lake. But, I hadn't understood… Continue reading