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  • Because of you

    It was 13 plus years ago, that I began an Art Quilt Group; a group of women who gathered around to inspire each other to become fiber artists.  It has since included other forms of art, and we still meet… Continue reading

  • 2+ Days

    Yesterday during a Tim Ferris Podcast, I heard about a couple ideas that I love. He was speaking to Jim Collins.  One was "Who Lucky".  Who were you lucky to meet along your journey, who helped grow you into who… Continue reading

  • Facade of life

    In talking to a friend, I was shown how we can't see what we can't see, even though we see it. The definition of denial. How we are actually responding and acting with a red flag, but perhaps can't see… Continue reading

  • The Mastery of Love

    This week I listened to "Don Miguel Ruiz" on Maria Shriver's podcast "Meaningful Conversations". What I loved about the podcast is, it is the author speaking about the book, "The Mastery of Love" and he is doing so with someone… Continue reading

  • Most Gorgeous thing of all

    On Instagram Mirna Valerio asked, "Tell me how you came to love your body. Tell me how you love what your body has been and is able to do? Tell me how your body amazes you every day. Tell me… Continue reading

  • Not to lose it.

    There is a thought, that when we leave the church, we then become "lost souls".  And I can understand how this image appears in their minds.  However, I am quite certain there are also found souls.   Souls who have… Continue reading

  • Right to Criticize Me

    Mostly I blog or write on here to sort out my mind, and to place unanswered questions, I write to unscramble frustrations.  I am doing this mostly for me.  And, most often by the end of the blog, I have… Continue reading

  • The Faithful

    As another church scandal hits the news, another almost 300 priests are named in sexual abuse cases in Texas, how can this religion, NOT be smeared? How can its validity still stand strong? Seriously, I am asking how its content… Continue reading

  • Circle of Abuse

    "Rape culture is a sociological concept for a setting in which rape is pervasive and normalized due to societal attitudes about gender and sexuality."   What many fail to recognize is how their own upbringing is a contributing factor in… Continue reading

  • Keep it in the dark.

    As I followed along on a Facebook feed, my feelings were of frustration. https://www.facebook.com/catherine.haataja/posts/10218743622122398?comment_id=10218760461623375&notif_id=1547850850956528&notif_t=feed_comment_reply Frustration of two different viewpoints not really understanding the other. Their intentions to be heard, fell on deaf ears; neither side making inroads into a topic… Continue reading