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  • Acceptance to what is

    I listened to a discussion about estrangement on NPR,  on 1 A – (Below is the link) 1A why-families-break-up Here are a few words that I resonated with. "I could be myself or I could be the daughter they wanted." Tara … Continue reading

  • Splashed Everywhere.

    Today I am one of the Featured Artist.  My art work will be splashed all over a gallery.  A tsunami of color, and the creative expression of me.  I will be on display and open to critique and judgement OR… Continue reading

  • Regrets at a minimum.

    Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware   1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that… Continue reading

  • What you add each day.

    As the year comes to a close, most will look to make resolutions for next year.  I just saw a blog about doing a "Past Year Review" instead.   Tim Ferris suggest this as a guideline. "1. Grab a notepad… Continue reading

  • Prison of voices

    My head is fairly quiet, the loud voices have all but been silenced.  They didn't suddenly all shut up, but I found, that the more my life aligned with my feelings, the less noisy my head became. I wonder about… Continue reading

  • Honor and Acknowledge Me.

    "Celebrate" to acknowledge – honor…. I celebrated Me yesterday, I turned 60. I celebrated my journey. all of it. Not just the good times, the easy choices, but the tough heart wrenching tough ones. I celebrated my open heart, after… Continue reading

  • Carry in your soul.

    We sang last night. In an end of life home. Where their options seem to be running out. A woman there, was shiny. With a hat of color and lights. A smile that was huge. Eyes that danced with delight.… Continue reading

  • Here

    I am 14 going on 60. On December 4, 2004 I woke up and it began a journey of becoming Me. When looking upon the two very different lives I have lived, I can hardly see the one who lived… Continue reading

  • In Reality

    Can you describe your life in one sentence, or are you a paragraph?  I heard this on a podcast, Soul Series. It is an interesting thought. What sentence are you living? What is the content of your life? My sentence… Continue reading

  • Love and respect.

    It has been many years now since I gathered with extended family on my side for the Holidays.  Years of re-creating a new normal if you will. Striving to put forth a pattern. Yet, it will take generations before it… Continue reading